Blood Sugar Self-Management with Lifestyle Changes

Blood sugar is significant in human body chemistry and it is an important diagnostic indicator for diabetes.

What Are Normal Blood Sugar Levels? The normal range is less than 100 mg/dL after not eating (fasting) for at least 8 hours; and less than 140 mg/dL 2 hours after eating.

What are high blood sugar (hyperglycemia) levels?

• Fasting hyperglycemia - This is blood sugar that's higher than 130 mg/dL (milligrams per deciliter) after not eating or drinking for at least 8 hours.
• Postprandial or after-meal hyperglycemia - This is blood sugar that's higher than 180 mg/dL 2 hours after you eat. People without diabetes rarely have blood sugar levels over 140 mg/dL after a meal, unless it’s really large.

In addition, Hemoglobin A1C ( HbA1C) is a blood test that provides an estimated average of  blood sugar over the past 2-3 months. The testing result significance is indicated in the chart below, according to NIH –

Diagnosis       A1C (percent)     Fasting Plasma Glucose      Oral glucose tolerance test
                                                          
Normal            below 5.7            99 or below                                   139 or below
Pre diabetes   5.7 - 6.4                100 to 125                                      140 to 199
Diabetes          6.5 or above        126 or above                                 200 or above

High blood sugar damages pancreas, kidneys, vision, nerves overtime and hardening blood vessels. Hypertension is more common in people with diabetes.  Clinical Trials have shown that lowering BP reduces major cardiovascular events in those with diabetes. For cardiovascular and also renal protection, people with diabetes require good BP control and so most patients with diabetes and hypertension require combination therapy to achieve targets.  Furthermore, NIH study shows connections between glucose metabolism, Alzheimer’s pathology, and symptoms.

More evidences from recent studies suggest that high blood sugar is associated with cognitive decline.  Findings suggest that interventions that delay diabetes onset, as well as management strategies for blood sugar control, might help alleviate the progression of subsequent cognitive decline over the long-term. 

Hyperglycemia treatment guidelines for 2025 from the American Diabetes Association (ADA) emphasize personalized care, prioritizing cardiovascular and kidney outcomes, and recommending new pharmacotherapies and technologies. Intensive behavioral modification interventions focusing on diet, weight reduction and increasing activity levels are successful in reducing weight and improving glycemic management while, at the same time, reducing the need for glucose-lowering and other medications.   

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The take home messages from your health coach
 
1. Making lifestyle modifications will regulate blood sugar naturally.  It is an effective preventive strategy for risk reduction or work well in combination with medical interventions.

2. Blood sugar levels may increase with age as result of metabolic changes; therapeutic lifestyle changes will help to reduce cardiovascular and many other risks. Eat healthy, lose weight, and stay active are effective no-drug treatment.

3. Mindset and behavior transformation for life style changes can be very challenging.  For those who needs help for get motivated and get results, engage in a structured program is a viable option.   QualityLifeForum private health coaching will help you map out a plan, implement wellness strategies, take you through step by step for achieve results, and nurture the new health behavior become part of your life style.    

                                   

Lowering Cholesterol with Lifestyle Changes

 

Lipids are part of the important biochemistry in human body and play a major role in our health.

Lipid (cholesterol and triglycerides) is transported by lipoproteins through blood system within the body.  Cholesterol is a fat-like lipid that produced by the liver. It has important functions for the formation of cell membranes, certain hormones, and vitamin D. Triglycerides are another type of lipid as source of energy, which is stored in fat cells as reserve. When human consume more calories than the burn rate over time, triglycerides build up high. When blood contains too much cholesterol and triglycerides, it may raise risk of health problems, such as heart disease and stroke.  High cholesterol and high triglycerides typically do not have physical symptoms; it is detected by blood chemistry testing.

Cholesterol levels for adults

Cholesterol levels tend to increase with age.  Males tend to have higher levels of cholesterol than females. Cholesterol level often increases in menopausal females.

• Total cholesterol levels less than 200 milligrams per deciliter (mg/dL) are considered desirable for adults. A reading between 200 and 239 mg/dL is considered borderline high and a reading of 240 mg/dL and above is considered high.
• LDL cholesterol levels should be less than 100 mg/dL. Levels of 100 to 129 mg/dL are acceptable for people with no health issues but may be of more concern for those with heart disease or heart disease risk factors. A reading of 130 to 159 mg/dL is borderline high and 160 to 189 mg/dL is high. A reading of 190 mg/dL or higher is considered very high.
• HDL levels should be kept higher. A reading of less than 40 mg/dL is considered a major risk factor for heart disease. A reading from 41 mg/dL to 59 mg/dL is considered borderline low. The optimal reading for HDL levels is of 60 mg/dL or higher.

A high triglyceride level combined with low HDL cholesterol or high LDL cholesterol is linked with fatty buildups in artery walls. This increases the risk of heart attack and stroke.

• Normal triglyceride level is less than 150 mg/dL (1.69 mmol/L)
• Borderline  high triglyceride level is 150 to 199 mg/dL (1.69 to 2.25 mmol/L)
• High triglyceride level is 200 to 499 mg/dL (2.25 to 5.63 mmol/L)
• Very high triglyceride level is greater than 500 mg/dL (5.65 mmol/L)

Actions for high cholesterol risk reduction

The 2025 American College of Cardiology/American Heart Association guidelines for acute coronary syndromes (ACS) represent a meaningful evolution in lipid-lowering therapy (LLT), reflecting new evidence and broader consensus around early, more intensive treatment approaches. Historically, treatment focused on statins, with low-density lipoprotein cholesterol (LDL-C) ≥70 mg/dL as the threshold for treatment intensification, and nonstatins were reserved mainly for statin intolerance or inadequate response. The current guidelines move beyond this paradigm, incorporating advances in pharmacologic options and a deeper understanding of early and profound LDL-C–lowering benefits.

The 2025 cholesterol clinical practice guidelines emphasized

personalized risk assessment, which incorporate more risk modifiers beyond traditional calculators, including ethnicity, family history of premature heart disease, etc;

shared decision-making, using of "cardiovascular age" is encouraged to help patients better understand their individual risk and make informed decisions about their treatment,

the importance of a healthy diet (low in saturated fat, high in whole grains, vegetables, and fish) remains a cornerstone of the guidelines.

High cholesterol in older adults significantly increases the risk of cardiovascular diseases like heart attack and stroke, and is also linked to dementia and cognitive decline. While high cholesterol levels are common with age, they accelerate the hardening of arteries and plaque buildup, leading to critical events.

Generally, the earlier an adult starts living a healthy lifestyle, the better for their cholesterol levels. Cholesterol levels build over time.  Get blood chemistry checked at physical exam once a year; know your numbers (total cholesterol level, as well LDL cholesterol, HDL cholesterol, and triglyceride levels). The key proactive measure is making lifestyle changes (TLC), which includes diet, exercise, and weight management.

Weight Management is essential for lowering cholesterol and preventing it building up. Overweight people who reduce their weight can help lower LDL in the process. Losing weight is especially important for those with a group of risk factors that includes:

• high triglyceride levels
• low HDL levels
• overweight men with a waist measurement of more than 40 inches
• overweight women with a waist measurement of more than 35 inches

Regular physical activity of 30 minutes on most days is recommended for everyone. This will also help with weight management, which in turn helps with lowering cholesterol.  Make exercise as therapeutics. Remember: something is better than nothing and more is still more. Everyone should strive to meet or exceed recommended activity level for greater health benefit.

Other Lifestyle Changes:

Quit smoking: Smoking damages blood vessels and increases cholesterol levels.

Manage stress: Chronic stress can raise cholesterol levels.

Get enough sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night.

Consult a healthcare professional: Discuss your cholesterol levels and any lifestyle changes you are considering with your doctor. They can provide personalized guidance and monitor your progress.

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 The Take Home Messages From Your Health Coach

1. Making therapeutic lifestyle changes is a key proactive measure and best wellness strategy for healthy aging.

2. Cholesterol and triglycerides levels tend to increase with age; healthy life style will help to reduce cardiovascular, and many other disease risks. 

3. Mindset and behavior transformation for life style changes can be very challenging.  For those who needs help for get motivated and get results, engage in a structured program is a viable option.   QualityLifeForum.net private health coaching will help you map out a plan, implement wellness strategies, take you through step by step for achieve results, and nurture the new health behavior become part of your life style. 

References:

https://www.jacc.org/doi/10.1016/j.jacc.2025.04.024

https://www.healthline.com/health/high-cholesterol#hdl-cholesterol

https://www.healthline.com/health/high-cholesterol#hdl-cholesterol
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http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/much-really-need-walk-live-longer/?utm_source=mfp&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=MFP_Newsletter_Workouts_20180217_ad2&os_ehash=55@sfmc:54599222
https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/files/docs/public/heart/chol_tlc.pdf

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Regulate Blood Pressure for Healthy Aging Update

The American College of Cardiology (ACC) and the American Heart Association (AHA), in collaboration with a broad coalition of professional organizations, released updated hypertension guidelines in August, 2025. 

Hypertension prevalence increases significantly with age, rising from 22.4% in adults 18–39 to 54.5% in those aged 40–59, and reaching 74.5% among adults 60 and over.

Hypertension is also known as high blood pressure, which tends to develop gradually over time as a result of age with large artery stiffness and the build-up of fatty deposits in the arteries. It is sometimes called the “silent killer” because it produces few, if any, symptoms. High blood pressure directly increases the risk of coronary heart disease and brain attack.  If it’s untreated, this condition can lead to major cardiovascular and other events such as heart attacks, strokes, kidney disease, eye disease, and more serious problems. You may not know that your blood pressure became high and that’s why it’s so important to monitor your blood pressure regularly.  Fortunately, high blood pressure is easy to detect and, in most cases, controllable, with early intervention.

American Heart Association guide us that 

- There is stronger proof now that high blood pressure is linked to increased risk of cognitive decline and dementia.  Adequate blood pressure management may prevent cognitive decline and dementia .

 - High blood pressure is the leading risk factor for stroke and a number of heart conditions such as coronary artery disease, heart failure and atrial fibrillation (AFib).

- Everyone should know your numbers.  Early intervention is encuraged. Your personal blood pressure goal may depends on your age and other medical conditions under physician's care.

 

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Practice Wellness and Enjoy Your Golden Years Freedom

Quality Life Forum  celebrates its 10^th anniversary in September, 2025. In the past decade, Quality Life Forum explores healthy aging and related topics; provided health aging coaching series of self-care, healthy eating, healthy living, golden age fitness, age-related health challenges, advocacy and empowerment, as well as pandemic support during COVID 19.

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·        Develop strategies to help prevent or slow down existing disease conditions or process, with self-care confidence/competence

·        Maximize quality of life potential in the golden years

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Loneliness Breakthrough Update

Loneliness is a personal perspective

Loneliness is subjective emotion, a painful feeling of not belonging or rejections, lack of social interactions and being disconnected with others. Loneliness is a complex problem, experienced subjectively and individually. It occurs when our personal social relationship quantity and/or quality falls below our satisfactory level.  Some of us feel lonely in a crowd, while others who do not feel lonely with fewer social contacts.

Loneliness is felt by us at some point in life at any age, transient or intermittent. Loneliness is reported most common among people who are not working, those living alone and individuals with lower household incomes. For those who reported a high rate of loneliness, they were also more likely to cope with social isolation. The risk factors often increase with age, including but not limit to – 

Personal

• Retirement
• Health status (chronic illnesses, mobility limitations, etc)
• Sensory loss
• Loss of loved ones or friends
• Personality and self-esteem

Environmental/social

• Moving/relocation
• Lack of transportation
• Demographics and cultural values
• Technology challenges

Loneliness and Aging

Getting older may change the dynamic of relationships, with family and with friends. Loneliness among older people becomes a major social problem. No one wants to be lonely in older age, but it appears that getting older and getting lonelier is increasingly correlated today. Retirement is a key factor: at this time social networks change, and partners often become a more important source of support. Other friendships become more difficult to maintain because of health or losses. The risk of ‘intimate loneliness’ is common for divorcees and also in unhappy relationships.

Older adults are at higher risk for social isolation and loneliness due to changes in health and social connections that may come with growing older, hearing, vision, and memory loss, disability, trouble getting around, and/or the loss of family and friends. Loneliness is often triggered by changes, losses, and compounded factors/situations. These can be internal (connections with social groups, personality, psychological response) or external (personal situations, environmental factors, life events/transitions).

Persistent feelings of loneliness or social isolation can impact our mood and emotions, cause symptoms of anxiety and depression, also increase risks of cognitive decline and dementia, as well as other health conditions, as it can activate the body’s fight or flight mechanism and keep cortisol chronically elevated, leading to inflammatory-based diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, stroke and leading to early death. 

Deep loneliness, also sometimes referred to as chronic loneliness, is an internal state of persistent detachment and emotional isolation from others and lack of meaningful connections and relationships with other people, according to psychology. Loneliness has a significant impact on wellness and quality of life.  With increasing number of older people living alone, loneness is commonly reported in aging population.  However, loneliness does not have age limit as it occurs in all ages. 

Understanding Positive Solitude

From psychological perspective, being alone has its benefits. 

A “positive solitude,” is a state that is associated with well-being, not loneliness, and finding the joys of solitude. Many considered alone time is essential for their mental health today.

Anxiety about being alone - This anxiety stems in large part from our culture’s deficit view of solitude. In this type of thinking, the desire to be alone is seen as unnatural and unhealthy, something to be pitied or feared rather than valued or encouraged. Our society is more likely to frame being alone negatively than positively. This type of bias shapes people’s beliefs. But the desire for solitude is not pathological, and it’s not just for introverts. Nor does it automatically spell social isolation and a lonely life.

True solitude turns attention inward. It’s a time to slow down and reflect. A time to do as we please, not to please anyone else. A time to be emotionally available to ourselves, rather than to others. When we spend our solitude in these ways, the benefits accrue: We feel rested and rejuvenated, we gain clarity and emotional balance, we feel freer and more connected to ourselves.

​It is true that if we don’t have a community of close relationships to return to after being alone, solitude can lead to social isolation. But it’s also true that too much social interaction is taxing, and such overload negatively affects the quality of our relationships. The country’s recent gravitational pull toward more alone time may partially reflect a desire for more balance in a life that is too busy, too scheduled and, maybe, too social.

Just as connection with others is essential for our well-being, so is connection with ourselves.

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If you feel the pain of loneliness, do something about it now. Your first step is to open up and talk about it. Helps are available. Go to https://qualitylifeforum.weebly.com/loneliness-breakthrough.html. for personalized loneliness breakthrough self-care health coaching support. 

You are not alone; stay connected. 

Lifestyle Transformation for Healthy Aging Update

Lifestyle transformation for healthy aging involves adopting positive habits across various aspects of life, including diet, physical activity, mental well-being, and social connections. Key components include maintaining a balanced diet, engaging in regular physical activity, managing stress, prioritizing sleep, and preventing age-related chronic conditions. These changes can help individuals age well, maintain independence, and enhance quality of life.

The key lifestyle changes to focus on -

1. Physical Activity:

Establish a daily exercise routine - Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity per week, or 75 minutes of vigorous activity, along with muscle-strengthening exercises twice a week. Engage in activities you enjoy, such as walking, swimming, dancing, gardening, or even housework can all contribute to your fitness level. Also build in strength and balance activities like weight training, yoga, or tai chi can help prevent falls and maintain muscle mass.

2. Diet and eating behavior:

Healthy food choices - Prioritize fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, as these foods are rich in vitamins, minerals, and fiber. Choose lean protein and healthy fat sources - enjoy fish, poultry, beans, and nuts can help you maintain muscle mass.

Limit processed foods, sugary drinks, and excessive alcohol.

Portion control and feeding time – Plan meal time according to personal schedule, avoid overeating in amount or frequency. May consider time restricted feeding/intermittent fasting.

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3. Mental and Emotional Health:

Prioritize sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night. Establishing a regular sleep schedule and creating a relaxing bedtime routine.

Stay socially connected: Maintain relationships with family and friends, and engage in social activities.

Manage stress: Practicing relaxation techniques (e.g., deep breathing, meditation), spending time in nature, connecting with loved ones.

Keep your mind active: Engage in activities that challenge your brain, such as reading, puzzles, or learning new things.

4. Other Important Factors:

Regular health checkups: Schedule routine checkups and screenings to detect any potential health issues early.

Quitting smoking is one of the most beneficial lifestyle changes a person can make. Avoid smoking and excessive alcohol consumption can have a detrimental impact on healthy aging.

Take preventative measures: Ensure your home is safe to prevent falls and other injuries.

Embrace aging: A positive attitude and willingness to adapt to changes can contribute to a more fulfilling later life, according to Home Instead.

By making these lifestyle transformations, you can significantly improve your chances of healthy aging and enjoy a longer, more fulfilling life, according to the National Institute on Aging.  Lifestyle changes can bring therapeutic effects for lowering, or reduce risks of, elevated blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugar; also benefit for cognitive fitness and mind-body wellness. 

How to get started -

1. Identify areas for change:

Reflect on your current lifestyle and identify areas you'd like to improve (e.g., diet, exercise, sleep, stress management). Consider your reasons for wanting to change. Having a clear purpose can help you stay motivated.

2. Set SMART goals:

Specific: Define exactly what you want to achieve (e.g., "I will walk for 30 minutes, three times a week" instead of "I will exercise more").

Measurable: Track your progress (e.g., use a fitness tracker, journal, or app).

Achievable: Choose goals that are realistic for your current lifestyle and fitness level.

Relevant: Ensure your goals align with your overall health and well-being.

Time-bound: Set deadlines for your goals to create a sense of urgency.

3. Start small and build gradually:

Don't try to overhaul your entire life at once. Focus on one or two small changes at a time. For example, if you want to eat healthier, start by adding one extra serving of vegetables to your daily diet. Once you've mastered that, you can move on to another small change.

4. Build positive habits:

Reward yourself - Celebrate your successes, even small ones, to stay motivated.

Track your progress -Use a habit tracker or journal to monitor your progress and identify areas where you might need to adjust your approach.

Identify triggers - Be aware of situations or environments that might lead to unhealthy habits and develop strategies to avoid or manage them.

Make it enjoyable - Choose activities you genuinely like so that you're more likely to stick with them.

5. Be kind to yourself:

Expect setbacks and don't let them derail you. Learn from them and get back on track.

Celebrate your successes, no matter how small, and focus on the positive changes you're making.

Seek support when needed.

​Behavior change is not easy, because it is rooted in our personal value and health determinants.  When it comes to health, you have to make a clear choice and priority decision. By following these tips and making a commitment to positive change, you can successfully transform your lifestyle and enjoy a healthier, happier life. 

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Nourish Your Body for Healthy Aging

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Most people are unaware of the significance of malnutrition in older adults, which requires attention.

What is malnutrition? Malnutrition is a physical state of unbalanced nutrition. It can mean undernutrition or overnutrition.

Fact 1 Malnourished individuals can be underweight or overweight, because you may eat enough food in calories but lack essential nutrients to be healthy

Fact 2 Recognize multi-dimensional factors causing malnutrition in older adults and cultivating healthy eating is essential for well-being

Fact 3 Eating more will not prevent or correct malnutrition

Plain and simple nutritional health rules

1. Do not put any toxics (such as cigarettes, abusive alcohol and drugs, disease-promoting junk fords, etc) into your body and cut back on processed, packaged foods. Eat mindfully for your nutritional needs.
2. Food is better than medicine. Make quality food choices in for daily meals and not rely on supplements. Prioritize plant based foods (i.e., fresh vegetables, fruits, seeds/nuts, whole grain) over processed food (i.e, packaged meats, baked goodies, chips/crackers).
3. Be aware of any nutritional deficiencies, even you appear to be well nourished. Your clinical laboratory test is a good tool for reveal signs of malnutrition. Discuss with your Doctor and taking corrective actions; follow medical guidance when taking supplements.
4. Engage in an activity routine and be active as much as possible. Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day, five days a week is a good start. Physical activities are not only for weight loss, but contributes important significance in your health and wellbeing. Keep in mind for safety first and work out at your comfort level. No need to push over your physical limit.
5. There is no magic diet; healthy eating is part of the lifestyle changes and you need to stick with it. It is a marathon, not a dash. Since each individual is unique, nutrition cannot be “one size fits all”. Health coaching offers personalized program for therapeutic life style changes. Quality Life Forum Health Coaching will provide guidance and support for your wellness. To learn more, go to https://qualitylifeforum.weebly.com/coaching-programs.html for details.

Summary:

Malnutrition is a physical state of unbalanced nutrition. It can mean undernutrition or overnutrition. Malnourished individuals can be underweight or overweight, because you may eat enough food in calories but lack essential nutrients to be healthy. Malnutrition in older adults can be caused by a variety of factors. Eating more will not prevent or correct malnutrition. Malnutrition is an imbalance of nutrients—meaning your diet may be high in calories but is low in nutrients that your body needs. It's worth to note that not every calorie is created equal, as each food has a specific effect in digestion, absorption, and distribution in human body. Keep in mind for the plain and simple nutritional health concepts. Managing chronic conditions through nutrition is an effective therapeutic approach. Cultivating healthy eating is essential and you need to stick with it for healthy living. 

Coping with Loss and Emotional Healing

May is beautiful time of the year and I always loved it, as the Mother’s Day comes around my mother’s birth day and the air is filled with warm Mother Nature.  But things have changed since the loss of my mother, as well as the anniversary of loss of my dear sister approaches at this time. Loss of loved ones are very painful, as the world shattered, more so at such special time. 

Grieving Facts: 

• We are likely to grief at some point in our lives.  Let’s face it and do not ignore. Do not suppress feelings and pretend to be emotionless.  It’s OK to cry; let it out.  Take time for yourself and be yourself, you may grief alone with journals or music or ventilate true feelings with trusted someone who is willing to listen and support.
• Flashbacks, memories, dreams seem real and unforgettable. The old family photo album – you want to see but afraid to open them. You want to take the time train back, to experience those ordinary days in the past that you took it for granted then and miss it so much now. It wasn’t so long ago, but gone forever.  The sadness of loss hurts deeply in the heart. Accept the fact. Remember the precious moments, be thankful and transform grief into positive life energy. Smile after dry your tears and look up. Life goes on; living in the moment.
• Dealing with guilt and regret for the unfinished – for anything you wished got it done earlier, better, or differently; for anything you did not get the chance to say, to see or to do; for everything you want to but nowhere to tell or share…… Write a journal; sing soft song, to express your thoughts and love. Do something meaningful – i.e., after my sister’s life was cut short by cancer, I joined National Patient Advocate Foundation and started online health coaching to promote wellness. I am feeling fulfilled when helping others.
• Time will pass but the wounds in the soul won’t heal automatically, unless you are emotionally ready.  Don’t try to replace them – the special someone or something are not replaceable. Find the resting place for them, in the earth and heart. Releasing attachment and making adjustment gradually at your personal pace. Letting go may take time. Take good care of yourself – walk out from the shadows of darkness and fill up your daily routine with healthy energies. Calm down your mind peacefully.
• Celebrate life and Mother’s day. Life cycle is endless. Connect yourself with nature and hope. With gratitude, we cherish every moment and to love with an open heart. Remembering the time we shared, for the love and family bounding, for the legacy of compassion and courage to moving on. 

My true story to share –

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One morning in mid-April, I opened my bedroom curtain as usual and saw something on the tree just outside of the window. Looking closely, it’s a mother bird in her nest hatching eggs on the tree branch. Awesome! This is my first lucky chance to watch wild life naturally in such close range without being noticed. The window became my observation station since and I have been watching her every day.  She lay in the nest for 10 days, rain or shine; finally the moves of new lives were seen. I also caught the male bird came for food delivery and how the babies were fed. The mother remained in the nest and never left her babies alone for another 7 days. The nest got crowded, with the two baby birds started moving around and flapping their wings. I know they will be ready to fly soon.  At last, on the May Day morning, they were gone. They flew into the freedom sky.

Looking at the empty nest, I miss them. But I am pleased to see the new lives took off from here. “Thanks for coming and bring the joy of life to my heart”, I wish they could hear me, “wishing all the best”.     

Mother Nature loves and bliss all lives under the sun. With appreciation, we celebrate Mother’s day in May. With remembrance, we also celebrate the Memorial Day in May. May is my special memorial for my loved ones and to honor their lives and legacy, which means so much to me.

Additional grieving support resources

http://www.griefshare.org/
https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grief-support-groups
https://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx

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Golden Mindset Bridging into Golden Years

It’s your golden years and you have earned it - no financial worries, no work or family stress. Life is good, but are you ready?

Retirement is a landmark of achievement and the new baseline of re-establishing lifestyle. It takes some thoughts and some time to transform your mindset, as the “golden gate” bridging into your golden years. This mindset transition process may begin sooner or later and duration varies individually. 

With life expectancy at an all-time high, retirement leisure can last anywhere from 20 to 30 years.  That’s a lot of time to fill, and retirees need to well plan for it to make the most of golden years value.

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When you have everything, wellness and happiness now becomes the most important focus.  Retirement should be more about you than your money.  You are not too old. Your mind and body must be challenged to stay healthy. Be thankful for what you have, who you are and where you will be. The true fountain of youth is an attitude of gratitude. Establish a healthy lifestyle routine; enjoy physical activities at your comfort level.

Golden years are most enjoyable, as you are duty-free and debt-free.  Health is the prerequisite for freedom. Healthy mindset is the wellness foundation.

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The Golden Keys for the Golden Years Update

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For healthy aging, here is the golden keys for your golden years ahead.

Aging is a natural process. Everyone is getting older each day, from birth to death. No matter what age you are, today is the youngest day in your life ahead. You are lucky when entering your golden years, as some couldn’t make this far and never had a chance to enjoy their golden years in the life journey. Therefore, be grateful for where you are now in life. Enjoy your freedom of your lifetime; understand as you came with nothing and will take away nothing from this world. The material things don’t really matter much.

Happiness nurtures life and enhance health. Practice self-care to live your best life - 

1. Enjoy life now. Don’t scarify quality of life for the sake of save money. Be mindful of your time and whom you spend time with. Live in a full life today, put away the past and don’t be anxious about future.

2. Slow down and set your own pace. You don’t have to be the super man/woman to do everything and trying to meet all other’s needs.  Do one thing at a time and do the things you enjoy. You will sparkle your moments in the ordinary days.

3. Let the sunshine into your heart and break the darkness. By this age, you have gone a long way and experienced too much. Let go and get out of the shadow of the sadness. Smile, relax, and be peaceful, walk into the nature to feel the energy of life. You will become strong from sad experiences, you will become brave from vulnerableness,  you become accountable from responsibilities, and you become independent when you have to stand alone without fears.

4. A job title and salary grade is not that important.  Gains and losses serve its purpose - no loss; no gain.  Everything comes and goes in life while you are moving on. A major issue today will be minor by tomorrow, a big event this year will be a story in the next year, and a great happening in life will be history in the future.

5. Don’t mind too much of others opinions. Humans have eyes in common, but they see the world differently. Humans have ears in common, but they hear things differently. Humans have mouth in common, but what they say is different. People think differently and live in different ways.  Trust your own instinct, not necessarily what others think or say.

6. You have the right to say “no”.  You don’t have to struggle under pressure. You know better of your own wills and limits.  You will not be able to please everyone and you do not have to be in control of everything. Refusal for unpleasant request is your best protection. You are open-minded and fearless.  Your key objective is health and happiness. Respect your own freewill and live your way of life.

7. Understand Mother Nature; don’t fight or worry too much for things you don’t have control of.  No need to be too concerned for the unknown and always apprehensive.  

8. Keep a young heart and good spirit. A healthy mindset will determine your attitude for life. Do the things you enjoy to do and go to the places you want to go now, don’t wait. For the items on the wish list, keep up the hopes.

9. Value your true feelings and treasure your loved ones. You are lucky if you have someone is taking care of you and be grateful. ​If not, please take good care of yourself. Keep a simple life with well-balanced nutrition, physical activities, and rest, to maintain body and mind fitness. 

10. When you are satisfied, you are happy. Friendships, nature, learning, peace, young heart and open mind, love, sharing, gratitude, generosity and good health will keep you happy on your golden years’ journey.

Quality Life Forum health coaching will be your trusted ally and resource along your way.  Feel free to contact qualitylifeforum@outlook.com for your health coaching needs. 

Best wishes for your happiness.

Intermittent Fasting Update

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Part I - Exploratory Discussions

Is intermittent fasting a viable option for weight loss?  Most weight loss researches are focusing on what to eat or not to eat, metabolic rate, calorie intake vs. energy expenditures, etc; but not much on when to eat and frequency of intakes. Furthermore, do humans need to be fed 3 times a day and nibbles in between? Lions in the wild can go days without food and gorge in up to 66 pounds of meat at one setting is rather normal.

Although major research efforts have focused on how specific components of foodstuffs affect health, relatively little is known about a more fundamental aspect of diet, the frequency and circadian timing of meals, and potential benefits of intermittent periods with no or very low energy intakes. The most common eating pattern in modern societies, three meals plus snacks every day, is abnormal from an evolutionary perspective. Emerging findings from studies of animal models and human subjects suggest that intermittent energy restriction periods of as little as 16 h can improve health indicators and counteract disease processes. The mechanisms involve a metabolic shift to fat metabolism and ketone production, and stimulation of adaptive cellular stress responses that prevent and repair molecular damage. As data on the optimal frequency and timing of meals crystalizes, it will be critical to develop strategies to incorporate those eating patterns into health care policy and practice, and the lifestyles of the population.

Few recent scientific studies suggest that there is great potential for adulthood lifestyles that incorporate periodic fasting to promote optimal health and reduce the risk of many chronic diseases.

Animal studies have documented robust and replicable effects of fasting on health indicators including greater insulin sensitivity, and reduced levels of blood pressure, body fat, IGF-I, insulin, glucose, atherogenic lipids and inflammation. Fasting regimens can ameliorate disease processes and improve functional outcome in animal models of disorders that include myocardial infarction, diabetes, stroke, Alzheimer ’s disease and Parkinson’s Disease. One general mechanism of action of fasting is that it triggers adaptive cellular stress responses, which result in an enhanced ability to cope with more severe stress and counteract disease processes. In addition, by protecting cells from DNA damage, suppressing cell growth and enhancing apoptosis of damaged cells, fasting could retard and/or prevent the formation and growth of cancers.

Recently studies have shed light on its role in adaptive cellular responses that reduce oxidative damage and inflammation, optimize energy metabolism and bolster cellular protection. In lower eukaryotes, chronic fasting extends longevity in part by reprogramming metabolic and stress resistance pathways. In rodents intermittent or periodic fasting protects against diabetes, cancers, heart disease and neurodegeneration, while in humans it helps reduce obesity, hypertension, asthma and rheumatoid arthritis. Thus, fasting has the potential to delay aging and help prevent and treat diseases while minimizing the side effects caused by chronic dietary interventions.

Research studies have shown that reducing your daily caloric intake by 20 to 40 percent is an effective way to lose weight and improve cardiovascular and metabolic health. However, it’s very difficult to eat less every day for a long time. So people are looking for more manageable ways to improve their health, and many are turning to intermittent fasting — short periods of eating little to no energy-containing food and drink. 

A scientific study finding, which published on Nature Medicine, 2025, reported intermittent fasting is effective for weight loss and improves cardiovascular health in people with obesity problems.

Part II - Intermittent Fasting Methods, Guidelines and Practical Tips

Part III – Key Points and Considerations

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Caution –Studies of fasting regimens have not been performed in children, the very old and underweight individuals, and it is possible that fasting would be harmful to these populations. Therapeutic fasting should be under close medical supervision. As clinical data on intermittent fasting for weight loss is very limited to date, consult your personal physician for your nutritional needs and weight management.

References:
The scientific approach to intermittent fasting, 2016, by Dr. Michael VanDerschelden
The complete guide to fasting, 2016, by Jason Fung, MD and Jimmy Moore
http://www.pnas.org/content/111/47/16647.full
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3946160/
http://scopeblog.stanford.edu/2016/07/07/intermittent-fasting-fad-or-science-based-diet/
https://sciencebasedmedicine.org/intermittent-fasting/
http://easacademy.org/trainer-resources/article/intermittent-fasting

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2025/01/250108144146.htm

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