Friday, September 1, 2023

Get Active (updated) - a personal health coaching story


Inactive is one of the social problems of modern life. The most common barrier/excuse is “no time” for physical fitness activities. Indeed, everyone is busy every day; you have so little time to do everything you need to do.  However, prioritizing get active is a life changing game for your wellness and benefit your health in many ways.

A true story of Mary 

Mary looked unhappy and tired.

“How’s going, Mary?” I asked.
“Too much ...….” as she went on and on. “I am so tired all the time”.
“Is sleep a problem for you?”
“Sleep is not a problem; my problem is no time to sleep “she said “and to do everything else”.
“So no time is your problem, after sorting out from all of these, from what I hear.”
“Yes”, she confirmed.
“Are you ready to do something about it?”
“Sure, but what can I do?” she laughed “will you donate some time for me?”
“If I could. But everyone has 24 hours a day; no more and no less. Fair enough?”
“I guess.”
“May I suggest something? I know you used to be a runner. How about get active again to experience the difference. Let’s see if your time is well spent and life is more enjoyable.”
“Are you kidding? This will take more time and energy. I am already tired and don’t have time to do everything.”
“Well, it all starts with the mindset. When you are motivated to do so, you may find the time and energy for it. Would you like to try?”

We played with the time game, explored stress management theories and practices, talked about work family balance challenges and values of life, as same old friends. Although still tired, she was much happier and agreed to try 15 minutes activity breaks in the morning (or lunch time) and afternoon (or evening) as the first step goals for a week or two.  “I know exercise is a good thing to do and won’t hurt to try it”, she said, not seem very much convinced.

This is how Mary got started active with “no time”. As she felt happier and more energetic after activity breaks, she became engaged in fitness routine with gradually increased activity levels. Mary also told me that she is at risk for type 2 diabetes, as she has a diabetic family history and with a borderline blood sugar level.  Her Doctor told her that exercise is the best preventive medicine. She may have had an early onset of diabetes, if not exercising regularly.

Below is her current fitness routine (in average of 1 – 2 hours a day), with daily tracking:
            15 minutes gentle activities when get up – stretch, flexibility, and balance
            30 (or more) minutes outdoor walk/jog or swim daily
             45 minutes strength training once or twice a week

The results –
  • Improvements noted in efficiency, concentration, and energy
  • Better health and minimal sickness 
  • Maintaining body weight/BMI within normal range (Mary wanted to lose some weight, especially the stubborn belly fat, and she is still trying hard)

How she dealt with setbacks; be flexible but consistent to go on, with continued support from me as well as from other resources. As benefited from her wellness mindset and physical fitness activities, she became more resilient to stress pressure and overcame many other life challenges.

After all, she is much happier now and managed everything under control.
 “Wow, how would you find time to do it all?” I asked.
“I made time for it, from my 24 hours each day”.
“Naturally. You always have time to do what you want to do and you deserve a reward for yourself ”.

We laughed together.  

It is evident that physical fitness activities correlate with health state, as supported by many research findings. Physical fitness activity is a health-enhancing behavior. The health benefits of physical fitness are many, most importantly, reduce risk factors for cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, cancer and obesity, improve bone density and muscle endurance, benefit mental health and quality of sleep. Physical fitness activities simply make you feeling good, energetic and happier.

The physical activity guidelines for Americans recommended goal is 150 minutes a week of moderate-intensity or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity aerobic physical activity a week for adults. It translates to a 30-minute walk on week days and take weekends off, or doing 75 minutes of high intensity workouts during the weekends. It can be combined in any way as you like.

Set life in motion. Place health on the top priority for life and get active today.

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Monday, July 31, 2023

Wellness Mindset


  


Wellness mindset motivates you to actively pursue and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Your wellness mindset is the starting point of your health and wellbeing.  When you value health highly and motivated for optimize quality of life potential, you will commit for positive behavioral changes and sustain for a healthy life style. 

Health is more than absence of diseases and free of physical discomforts, as emotional and social conditions are associated with general health, according to World Health Organization (WHO). A good health is essential for happiness and allows life to be enjoyable, but don’t take health as granted. Life is a personal journey full of aging challenges.

Mindset determines what you and your life will become.  Human brain is powered with knowledge, curiosities, creations, and emotions, while the mindset is trained for values, believes, critical thinking logics, determinations and behavioral control. 

Most failures are results of self-defeating or mindless.  See differences in examples below – 

                Wellness mindset                                                            Mindless    
Actively pursue goals  
Passive and mindless
Continued learning effort in wellness             
Uninterested  in wellness knowledge update
Well established personal hygiene routine 
Lack of self-control 
Analytical thinking 
Reactive thinking
Taking self-care actions     
Procrastination
Reasoning with facts and knowledge     
Blind trust or negativity
Focusing on actions/results  
Only see failures
Being optimistic and passionate
Being pessimistic and negative
I am accountable for my wellbeing   
Careless


As a metaphor tells the story – A Wiseman tells his grandson: “there are two wolfs in your head always fighting each other; one is a good wolf and another one is bad”. 

“Who win?” asked by the boy.

“The one you feed”.

Hope you are feeding the good wolf in your head and wellness prevails. 



 

When you are able to conquer your own negativity, overcome mental blocks, and master your mindset, you will make healthy commitment and on your way to wellness success. With wellness mindset, you will see your true values and fulfilling your potentials. You will make positive changes align with your life goals. You will feel energetic and happy in your life.  

Bear these simple life facts in mind -

•          Your life is a one way time train ride, non-stop and no return.
•          Wellness mindset leads your life choices consciously and extend health span.
•          Health is earned; money can’t buy.

Wellness mindset builds on the ideas of self-care - how you nurture, energize and rest your body. Take actions now!  The key actions for wellness transformation are proactive, prevention, and persistence. In small steps, you will go a long way.  Start with the three basics - intake, active life, rest and daily routine.  
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        Being active is essential for a healthy life. Keep moving. Feeling good. Go for an extra mile.  Drink water and green tea.












Enjoy ordinary life with appreciation. Adore dandelions under the sun, connect with nature and feel the fresh air.  Keep calm and peaceful to de-stress.
At end of the day, recall good things in your day. This practice will keep your positive perception of life.



      Be passionate for your wellness goals.  Commitment with passion will make results sustainable.  Congratulate yourself for wellness mindset building and believe in yourself. Confidence comes before success.  Trust your abilities. No doubt.   Failures are your lessons.  Focus on your successes and build momentum moving forward.

 
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